....Firstly, by crying openly, Murray showed that men’s emotions are valid
and fit for public view. His tears told men around the world that, if
he, a world class athlete, could weep where people could see him, then,
it’s okay for us too. The context matters. Murray didn’t cry at home or
in a cinema, he cried in a sporting context. This is important because
it sends the signal that crying and the apex of modern masculinity -
professional sports - are compatible. This addresses one of the main
issues around mental health provision - it’s not put in a masculine
context. There’s often too much of an emphasis on sitting down, talking,
and sharing with others which, while important, leaves a lot of blokes
feeling alienated. Putting tears and sport on the same screen tells us
that we can be emotional while still being masculine - that is a
powerful message..... ...more Bethany`s Notes: It`s rare to see athletes cry, let alone male athletes. Certainly they were perhaps tears of joy but perhaps also tears of relief. No matter what they were it is a statement that men can and will cry and it is okay. | ||
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